I spent over 2 weeks on holidays and we went to meet up with some friends who live in Panama Central America, I hadn’t seen them for 2 years. This was my first sober vacation and my god it was like I had a communicable disease. First was my very good girlfriend when I arrived at her house and didn’t have a glass of wine, she never spoke to me again while I was there. Her husband then told mine he couldn’t live with someone who didn’t drink (funny though I know they have had heated “discussions” on her at least one bottle of wine a night habit) Then there was the conversation from a friend (who doesn’t drink more than one glass of anything ever) and we were all out for dinner and she looks at me in front of a table of 12 of our friends that it sucks to be the sober one. My husband asked me the entire time we were in Panama to drink and told me I was more fun on vacation when I drank (he seems to have forgotten all the shit shows that incurred when we were drinking together). Were my feelings hurt in these situations HELL YES.
So what did I do: